Drive by Friday

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Drive by Friday –

Picture this: you find the perfect job. You nail the application, charm your way through the interview, and maybe even start imagining what your desk plant will look like in your new workspace. Then – BAM – you get that email that starts with “thanks, but …”

Yep. We’ve all been there. Job rejection stings. But here’s the thing: a “no” today could be the fuel you need to land an even better “yes” tomorrow! Let’s look at some practical, light-hearted ways to handle rejection like a pro and come out even stronger.

Have a good pity party (briefly!)

Seriously, grab a snack, put on a sad song, vent to a friend, do what you need to! But set a timer on this pity party. After you let the disappointment out, you’ll feel more refreshed and ready to bounce back.

Get the Inside Scoop (if possible)

If you feel comfortable, ask for feedback. Sometimes you can get some real gems here, like helpful tips for interviews or insights on the skills they were really focussed on. And if you don’t get a response? Well, you can still keep it moving with confidence.

Rethink Your Game Plan (like a Secret Agent)

Imagine you’re on a mission: How was your resume? Could you tweak anything in your interview? Did you feel truly excited about the role, or were you convincing yourself because it was “good enough”? Take a look at your approach, spy-style, and make a few tweaks for next time.

Remind Yourself of Your Superpowers

Let’s face it: just because this one job didn’t work out doesn’t mean you aren’t fantastic. Think of your skills, your accomplishments, and all the things that make you a great hire. Not every company is lucky enough to see that right away – hold onto your strengths because they’re going to shine in the right role.

Stay in Touch, Just in Case

So, you didn’t get this role – but if you had a good connection with the Recruiter/Hiring Manager, keep that door open! A short, friendly follow-up can lead to future opportunities. Sometimes timing is everything, and staying on their radar can help when a better match opens up.

Remember: It’s (Usually) Not You

Hiring is a strange game with lots of players and decision-makers. Sometimes, it’s not about you at all, just about what they needed at that moment. Don’t let one “no” dent your confidence – you’re still awesome, and you still have a lot to offer!

Rejection Today, Rocket Fuel for Tomorrow

Think of rejection as a small detour, one that’s leading you closer to a role that’s a better fit. Each step (even the “no” ones) gets you closer to the kind of work that’ll let you shine. So, keep putting yourself out there, learning along the way, and showing up with that fantastic confidence only you can bring.

Here’s to bouncing back, find the perfect fit, and having a little fun in the process!